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My Wife Doesn’t Appreciate Me

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This is a historic week in the history of marriage and all that it takes to make one successful. Seven years ago, this week, months away from our twentieth anniversary… my wife declared she was done. Even had the divorce papers to prove it. Our story has been explained in…

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The Fastest Way To Get Her Naked

I have learned some amazing things over this journey. Some have been mind blowing. Some are so simple, I feel completely stupid for not seeing them before. This is one of those. In the great blogosphere of the Internet, the word naked tends to mean honest, holding nothing back. It…

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Who Is Erik?

That’s a really good question….

I am a husband and father, blogger and writer, Christian, retired recording and live sound engineer, and recovering knucklehead who lost almost everything between 2009 and 2011.

After years of building up my pro audio career, my production company, and even my own recording studio, I found myself staring at divorce papers. My wife of 20 years had tolerated all she could take of me. The previous ten years, with all the stress and aggravation from building a business and working within ministry, turned me into a dark, angry and abusive man.

The divorce papers forced me to choose between saving my family and saving the rest of my world. That decision cost me two houses, my studio and production company, a motorcycle shop, and the very career I had worked so hard for.

The restoration process was the hardest four years of my life.

After getting into¬†marriage counselling with Joel and Kathy Davisson, everything began to turn around. My family was restored and my life changed in ways I couldn’t have dreamed.

Four years after being handed divorce papers, my wife declared that she loved me and wasn’t going anywhere. This entire site and all I have accomplished since then, are to her credit. She told me that I should encourage other men to step up for their families.

And, here we are…

Since confronting my issues and stepping up as a husband and father, we seem to have found success at every turn. Whether through the books I have written, or the home-based LegalShield business we opened, or even my return to professional audio as a writer and editor… I have gone from absolute anguish, to one seriously blessed guy.

Within this site, you will find a very diverse collection of categories from all the lessons we have learned.

Becoming a Better Man will walk you through what it took to save our marriage and family.

The Art of the Soundcheck is full of the lessons I wish someone had taught me when I first got into pro audio.

The New Adventure is where you will find our travels and plans for the future.

All Things Homestead covers home, garden, prepping and similar things.

The Dad Life is mostly about what we have learned as parents and grandparents.

And, our newest category is for Guest Bloggers and Writers who have contributed to this site. You can join the party, or request my material for your site, through the contact page.

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